So my wife is 16 weeks along with triplets! (We currently have a 2.5 yr old) Anyone have multiples or lots of kids close in age? Got any advice? We have had some time for it to sink in and the shock is wearing off and getting excited but also feeling overwhelmed. Life wont ever be the same, but we are ready for all the craziness. Pray for us!
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12-13-2018, 09:25 PM #1
Triplets!!!
"I’m willing to sacrifice everything for this team. I’m going to dive for every loose ball, close out harder on every shot, block out for every rebound. I’m going to play harder than I’ve ever played. And I need you all to follow me." -MB '17
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12-13-2018, 11:52 PM #2
WOW! That’s amazing, and it must be overwhelming to you now. God doesn’t give you anything you can’t handle, so this is a wonderful blessing. I promise! Life will NEVER be the same, that’s a promise for everyone. As somebody (Einstein?) said, you must be willing to give up what you are to become what you will be (or something like that). You are about to become a LOT more busy, but even more blessed. Prayers and best wishes!
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12-14-2018, 03:31 AM #3
* Noise canceling headphones (for you once they are a bit older)
* color differentiating clothing to tell them apart OR I've heard tattoos help
Congratulations!
I had friends in school who were triplets. Two identical boys and a girl, who looked similar, yet only in a sibling sense.
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12-14-2018, 05:36 AM #4
Congrats! Great news.
Suggestion: Costco...he went up late, and I was already up there.
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12-14-2018, 05:58 AM #5
I’m a twin. My mom and dad had 5 kids all within 4 years. I have no idea how they did it. I hope that you have family and close friends close by. My only advice is to not make any plans that can’t be changed at the last minute and don’t expect that things will always go according to plan. Don’t try to be the “perfect” parents or expect the kids to be the “perfect” kids. Take it day by day and try to enjoy the chaos and the journey. Congratulations, you will get to experience life as few have the opportunity to do. Be thankful.
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12-14-2018, 07:52 AM #6
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First of all, congratulations. My wife and I are the proud parents of 2 year old twins and every day is an adventure. There will be times when you think you are going completely crazy and that's normal :) . One piece of advice that I can give is have a routine as much as possible and stick to it. There will be times where that routine is completely effed up and that's ok but try to stick to it.
My second piece of advice is seek out help now and get it lined up. Not sure if grandparents or siblings are close by, but enlist their help if they are. If they aren't, get babysitters or nanny lined up. There are going to be times where you just need a break even if it is for an hour where you are not cleaning up poop, vomit or whatever else.
Third piece of advice, remember you and your wife are a team, and you need each other now more than ever. Lean on each other and be honest with each other. There were times in that first year (it gets so much easier after year one) when either my wife and I would say to the other "I need a break" and one of us would hold down the fort so the other could collect their thoughts and emotions for a little bit.
Last thing I can say is though its extremely hard (especially in the first year), being a parent of multiples is completely awesome in ways I can not explain. You will understand in a year or two :) . Enjoy the ride thru all the peaks and valleys and just know that love will get you thru it.
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12-14-2018, 09:05 AM #7"He's a little bit ball-dominant, he needs to have the ball in his hands, and he's not a good shooter." Ball-dominant … isn't that a nice way of calling someone a ball hog? Where is my Jay Bilas Thesaurus?
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12-14-2018, 10:01 AM #8
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Congratulations, I have no experience yet but my wife is pregnant with twins at the moment. She is a bit over 18 weeks along.
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12-14-2018, 11:48 AM #9
Your grandfather had 7 daughters and no sons. So your situation is a mole hill by comparison.
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12-14-2018, 11:49 AM #10"I’m willing to sacrifice everything for this team. I’m going to dive for every loose ball, close out harder on every shot, block out for every rebound. I’m going to play harder than I’ve ever played. And I need you all to follow me." -MB '17
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