Why do you insist on making it so personal? I'm truly sorry for that situation.
I'm sure you are a Xavier graduate.
As noted, immigration is very complicated. Perhaps there are reasons they don't "stand and fight."
Maybe their oppression is not all that much different than situations in Ukraine.
Let me check with Joseph and see why he didn't and went to Egypt.
And I'll also note to the Pope on your behalf that he shouldn't stand behind Christmas when addressing the refugee situation.